In life, there may always come a time when somebody, regardless of whether he is close to you or not, might take advantage of you. In fact, he might succeed in bringing you down that you might end up becoming motivated about getting even with this person and to get revenge as well. Before you do, however, it helps a lot if you will consider what such a move will likely bring you.
Most people often have this notion that the only way for them to be served with justice is when they can inflict to those people who hurt them the same pain and suffering that they had to ensure in the hands of these individuals. Somehow they feel that the best thing that will happen is them getting even. Somehow, they feel as if they would only have peace of mind if they did so.
People will find, however that things aren't really as ideal as they would want them to be if they choose to pursue this act. They'll find that what drives them in doing is is this bitterness inside of them and there current state of not being able to forgive what others did to them. Nothing good comes from a bitter act, really. It is going to be a bitter pill to swallow too.
Besides, plotting up of ways on how you can have the people who did bad to you suffer from what they did can be very draining both mentally and physically. In fact, you will even be surprised at how exhausted you get at the end of the day for all the plotting and the scheming that you are trying to do. That is never healthy and that is most likely to bring and pull you down in the end.
You'll find too, that the pleasure you will experience out of doing all these stuff is going to be happiness that's short-lived. The joy and the pleasure you experience out doing all these things will not really be the real deal. The hurt will come and the more that it will too, since you have made other people suffer too. That alone can be a great bother to your conscience.
Besides, doing the very same thing to the people who did the same thing to you before does not make you anything less like them. If you think that they were a monster for inflicting you the hurt and the suffering that you had to go through, that doesn't make you any less than them if you opt to do these same things too. That doesn't not make you any less evil or any less a monster in the process.
You'll find that the whole process can be downright stressful to you. Hence, it is very likely to put such unnecessary strains to your health in the process. Just like a case of bad flu, it sticks to you. Hence, it's not really surprising if you will end up having some serious health concerns in the process. Besides, the moment you start seeking for one, the more you would want to pursue it again and again.
Besides, when you get revenge, it might backfire. You can't always say that your plans will be foolproof. In this case, carrying them out might only cause you to be hurt more than ever. So, better leave justice to be served on the proper venues and don' take things into your own hands.
Most people often have this notion that the only way for them to be served with justice is when they can inflict to those people who hurt them the same pain and suffering that they had to ensure in the hands of these individuals. Somehow they feel that the best thing that will happen is them getting even. Somehow, they feel as if they would only have peace of mind if they did so.
People will find, however that things aren't really as ideal as they would want them to be if they choose to pursue this act. They'll find that what drives them in doing is is this bitterness inside of them and there current state of not being able to forgive what others did to them. Nothing good comes from a bitter act, really. It is going to be a bitter pill to swallow too.
Besides, plotting up of ways on how you can have the people who did bad to you suffer from what they did can be very draining both mentally and physically. In fact, you will even be surprised at how exhausted you get at the end of the day for all the plotting and the scheming that you are trying to do. That is never healthy and that is most likely to bring and pull you down in the end.
You'll find too, that the pleasure you will experience out of doing all these stuff is going to be happiness that's short-lived. The joy and the pleasure you experience out doing all these things will not really be the real deal. The hurt will come and the more that it will too, since you have made other people suffer too. That alone can be a great bother to your conscience.
Besides, doing the very same thing to the people who did the same thing to you before does not make you anything less like them. If you think that they were a monster for inflicting you the hurt and the suffering that you had to go through, that doesn't make you any less than them if you opt to do these same things too. That doesn't not make you any less evil or any less a monster in the process.
You'll find that the whole process can be downright stressful to you. Hence, it is very likely to put such unnecessary strains to your health in the process. Just like a case of bad flu, it sticks to you. Hence, it's not really surprising if you will end up having some serious health concerns in the process. Besides, the moment you start seeking for one, the more you would want to pursue it again and again.
Besides, when you get revenge, it might backfire. You can't always say that your plans will be foolproof. In this case, carrying them out might only cause you to be hurt more than ever. So, better leave justice to be served on the proper venues and don' take things into your own hands.
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